I talk about sex to liberate people and encourage you not to be fearful of the inevitable. SEX! Being sex positive is more than just having sex.
It is about accepting all aspects of sexual orientation, practices, fetishes, and so on.
If you want to take the leap to be more accepting, I’ll tell you some easy ways how.
Stop slut shaming. I do not agree with derogatory terms.
The way you act, the choices you make, what you wear, and the people you sleep with do. not. define you. I know I have been called those terrible names for choices I have made, and I’m sure you may have been too.
If people feel the need to say those words, they are most likely fearful or envious of the choices you are bold enough to take. Some people long to be tied-up, blind folded, and experience new pleasures; yet, many don’t know how or when to try.
Even if you don’t agree with ones lifestyle stop talking shit. Okay?
Speak about sex as as adult. Please STOP teaching children to say “pee pee” or ” wee wee” as proper terms for genitalia.
You are teaching children to already have a stigma about sex when you teach them these childish terms.
Teach your child how and when to talk about these things. Teaching children the proper knowledge will not only guide them to be sex positive, but, it will teach them to respect their bodies as well as the bodies of others.
Don’t be scared to teach young ones reality, please stop teaching them about fairies and unicorns and get real. As for adults, the same advice goes. No one wants to hear about how you ” banged” this hot girl/girl you met at the bar.
Leave the gruesome details for your diary. It’s okay to share your sexual encounters as long as your partner is okay with it.
Sex is meant to be respected. There is a difference between a talking about your partner and referring to your adventure in a positive way. It took me a while to learn the difference, but I’m glad I did.
Be open to learning. Alfred Kinsey is the mastermind behind modern day sexuality.
His innovation and passion has curated information that we need to understand. Take a moment to read about his findings.
Google the Kinsey scale and see how you identify. Learning about your sexuality is a leap towards becoming sex positive. This way you can better understand your relationships.
Hold your judgment. You are allowed to have opinions, but keep your negativity to yourself. You never know what someone may have gone through that could shape who they are today. Be a nice person, put your clouded judgement aside, and see that all forms of sexuality as interesting and beautiful.
Being sex positive is a way to better this world. Love one another for who they are, and support who they want to be.