Being adventurous in any part of life brings new thrills, but what happens when you bring in into the bedroom?
Pure excitement, heightened senses, pain that turns into pleasure. You name it, it can happen.
There is a lot of negative stigma around sex toys, and I want to push away from those dated assumptions.
Here is a little Myth Vs. Fact about Sex Toys:
Sex Toys are for People Who Have Bad Sex Lives
People use sex toys for many different reasons. I would never say a reason is because of a bad sex life.
Actually, people who feel comfortable enough to use toys may be thriving in bed.
Certain types of toys, such as a vibrator, can help you understand your body better. If you can find out what gets your off, why wouldn’t you want to do that
Sex Toys are Scary
This all depends on your take of what you are willing to do.
If you enjoy a vanilla sex life, toys are probably going to be a bit more intimidating, but that is okay.
It is important that you know how to use the toys, your partner included.
Last last thing you want is a gag ball in your mouth, when in reality you really really need some air.
SAFE WORDS are of utter importance. Before any games are played make sure you and your partner have a word for when the pain, choking, or experience is too intense.
Sex Toys are Dirty
Sex toys are dirty ;)…. and dirty…. it all depends on your take.
It is very important to keep your toys clean and stored properly.
If anything goes inside any part of your body, be sure to clean it properly to avoid any infection.
Some People Need Toys to Orgasm
This is nothing to be ashamed of.
There are many different types of sexual dysfunctions, and I don’t even like to call it that because I do not want people to feel ashamed.
Some men can not stay hard the entire duration of sex, but wearing a c-ring can keep the blood flow in the penis.
And some women have trouble climaxing with out a vibrator.
This does not make any human less valuable in bed. If your partner wants to use a toy, and you feel comfortable encourage it.
Sex toys have been around for decades . It is not a new fad.
If you ever decide to experiment make sure you know how to use the toy, and you feel comfortable with the person you are with .